A Little Schooling About Formal Complaints

Let me tell everyone a little something about filing formal complaints about a hotel. If you have issues with the features of your room that are unbearable. Tell the front desk. If you don’t like the “smell” of your room. Tell the front desk. If there is something “missing” from your room. TELL THE FRONT DESK!

Don’t file a formal complaint with our franchise for issues that you NEVER brought forth to the hotel staff upon check in. Did you know that we have to pay a COMPLAINT FINE every time you do that? It’s one thing if the staff was rude to you. But when you fill out your complaint and you can’t even give a negative or positive opinion about the staff? That means your entitled little self never even tried to see if the hotel staff would fix it for you.

No. You just went right to corporate over petty issues so that you could get a free room.

When you’re staying in a hotel, if you have an question, comment, issue, or complaint, let the hotel staff now as soon as you can after your check in so that they may try to fix it for you. Don’t be a prissy little asshole and not even say a word to use so that we can fix it ourselves. Hotels are individually owned. When you take a stab at them like that, you’re taking a stab at a “mom and pop” shop. You’re taking a stab at a locally owned business.


Preparation Lost on Everyone

Yeah, yeah, it’s been ages since I’ve updated ANYTHING.  I’m terrible at this blog thing, I know, I know.

Summer time here at the hotel has been pretty busy.  We’ve been booked solid for almost two months now.  I’m not working nearly as hard as most of my co-workers are, and I feel guilty for that, really, I do, but I don’t know what else to do.  I can be a slow learner or a fast learner on things.  I’m pretty good at what I do at the desk, but when it’s super busy and things need to be done efficiently and correctly, it’s harder for me to get the full hang of it when I’m trying to learn it.


Okay, I just don’t see why that’s hard to understand.  No, there is no special convention going on in town.  No, there is no fair.  No, there is no concert.  It’s summer.  People travel in the summer.  About 70% of the people staying here made reservations, that’s why I don’t have a room for you when you just walk in.  Yes, I’m aware sometimes it’s hard to plan with how far you will go.  But for crying out loud, don’t act like I’ve murdered your entirely family because this whole town is booked up.

It happens.  Hotels tend to be booked up pretty heavily during summer and holidays.  I know that it’s a tough life living outside of Undertherockville, but sometimes you need to do it.  Get some sunshine, it’s good for you.  In moderation, of course.

Now, maybe I was raised differently than most people, but I’ve always been taught that you try to be as prepared as possible when going on trips, especially if you will be away from home for a few days or longer.  

Hotels do not have a rollaway available for every single room.  For some hotels, that would be 200 or more rollaway beds.  Come on now, what is the likelihood that a hotel is going to need to use 200 rollaways, okay?  

When traveling we’ve always either brought an air mattress with us, or extra blankets and pillows in case 1) beds are uncomfortable, 2) we have more people with us than beds in our room, c) it’s just a smart preparation thing to do.

Like, what I don’t get is WHY… WHY, if you’re traveling with an infant or a baby that uses a pack n play… WHY DON’T YOU PACK THE PACK N PLAY YOU HAVE AT HOME?!  IT’S CALLED A PACK N PLAY FOR A REASON.  YOU. CAN. PACK. IT. IN. YOUR. VEHICLE!  

Or, maybe if mommy and daddy didn’t bring a suitcase full of alcohol, they’d have room in their vehicle for their child’s bedding.

I’ve seen that a lot before, too.  People haul in all kinds of things to their rooms.  Most commonly I see parents in their late 20s to late 30s traveling with copious amounts of alcohol.

Excuse me, but… you have children.  You don’t need THAT much alcohol with you, okay?  Yeah, sure, have a drink or two while you settle in, get comfortable, but don’t drink a six pack a piece while you’ve got small children.  It’s a hotel, not a frikken daycare.  

So, really, why don’t people come prepared?  If you know that you sleep cold, bring an extra blanket or two.  If you know you need more head support, bring some extra pillows.  

Why not come prepared?  Hotels are meant to offer you a comfortable place to sleep, maybe some breakfast, and some rest from being on the road.  They are not a chance for you to be waited on hand a foot.  The front desk clerk is not your personal assistant.  

Unless you’re staying at some top of the line, five-star, $200 a night hotel, don’t expect the hotel employees to hold your hair back while you puke, mmkay?

Come prepared.  Know the city you’re stopping in.  Check to see if it’s got a store that might be open.  Check for a Wal Mart, make sure you pack enough diapers.  Just.  TRAVEL SMART!

Bend Over, the Needy & Greedy Are Coming

There are many similarities between working in retail customer service and working in hotel customer service.  However, there are also many differences.  The main one being that people treat you more like a servant as a front desk clerk at a hotel.

I’m sure it’s an easy mistake for people to make, I mean, I’m working in the hospitality business, I should have assumed that a collar and leash came with the deal. But still, that doesn’t mean that I’m going to be so willing to help you out when all you do is abuse me and talk down to me.

Recently, I was already in a grumpy mood when I came into work, so when the first guest I encountered whined about his room before even going in it, I was less than kind about allowing him to be moved.  This man was probably a good two feet taller than me and I still managed to get him to cow down to me by insisting, very firmly, that it made no difference if he was in the outter hallway or inner hallway of the hotel.  Not to mention, don’t you dare try to complain about your room assignment before you’ve even been in there to see if its actually going to be a problem or not.  This isn’t the Hilton or Marriott, asshole.

Then, after getting into his room, he called down to inquire about a straight-backed chair that could be used. I suggested him using the breakfast bar to conduct work, or even the desk in the lobby.  But, before I could suggest that maybe he just take one of the breakfast bar chairs back to his room, he hung up on me in a huff.

Nope, sorry.  I wasn’t even done speaking to you, sir, now you definitely will not get kindness or help from me.  I could have cared less if he wrote a bad review about me, because quite frankly, I am unwilling to show respect to a stranger who is unwilling to show respect for me.  Don’t blame me for our corporate offices wanting us to take desks and chairs out of rooms with two beds.  Blame corporate and let them know how much you dislike it, not us.  We’re just doing what we are told to keep our name.

Then that very same night I encountered a couple that were just outrageous.  First of all, the man did not tell me there would be two people in the room.  He kept referring to himself singularly, so I assumed it was just him.  Yes, I should have asked to make sure, but when someone is speaking in singular terms, it’s usually pretty safe to assume these things.

Well, I got him checked in only to realize about two minutes later that he has a wife who was demanding and rude to me.  They did legitimately have a problem with the first room they were checked into, so I moved them.  She called down at the front desk to alert me of the problem, and I issued keys and headed down the hall to get them moved as quickly as possible.  From the time we hung up on the phone, to the time I made it down the hall, maybe 45-60 seconds had passed.  And no, I am not over exaggerating.

She was huffing and puffing at me and said “well that took you long enough.”

Whoa, slow down woman.  Just because you’re on an oxygen tank doesn’t give you the right to abuse me.  I got there as fast as I could and I put you in a room with an un-broken security latch.  I could have told you tough cookies and left you in there, but I moved you, and even made sure you were able to get all of your luggage into your room easily before I left.

Then I hear on my days off that she rose hellfire to complain about all of the horrible things about the hotel.  My manager simply apologized to her and stated that if they were still having issues with the hotel, then they were free to take their things to another hotel in the area.

They decided to stay another night.

People expect a lot from you in the hotel business, even if you aren’t a high-class hotel.  They expect you, as a desk clerk, to be able to turn into an electrician, plumber, and tour guide at the flip of a hat.  It’s not good enough that you give them the weather forecast for the night or next day in the city they will be travelling to next, you must tell them if there is a chance of rain, what the humidity is, the wind chill, and the heat index.  And you must also tell them the best route to get there, no matter if you’ve never been there before.

It’s not enough that you give them free laundry detergent for the guest washer, they also expect you to listen for it and change it for them.  Nope, sorry dudes, it’s called a guest laundry for a reason.  Not your mom, not your maid.  Want me to do those things for you?  At least tip me or sound sincere when you say thank you.

Oh, look out, here comes an entitled old businessman who believes that because of all of his hard work over the last few decades that I need to get on my hands and knees to shine his shoes.

By All Means, Please Go Jump in the Empty Concrete Pit

Winter rolls in in the middle of the night while Autumn is still teasing us with her warm days and nights and cold breezes.  You think to yourself, I can go swimming one last time.

Then you realize it’s December and you’d rather cuddle under the blankets than step outside into the massive freezer that is Earth.

Thus is the reason why many hotels will shut down their pool areas during the winter.  Yes, even the indoor ones.  Why you ask?

Because hotels turn into The Shining in the winter and there are hardly any people there to justify keeping all of those pumps and water running for the occasional person who wants to freeze their nuts off in the pool, then kamikaze jump into the hot tub.  Plus, it’s nice to be able to clean up after a hard summer of unbathed children and adults getting into the pool and hot tub with their 12 hour drive funk.

“What do you mean your pool and hot tub are closed?”

“It’s winter.”

“But that’s when people want the hot tub the most!”

“I can rent you our three-room suite with a whirlpool tub if you need that.”

“No!  That’s too expensive.  God, is there ANYWHERE ELSE in this town that has a pool?”

“Only two other hotels have a pool, and they’re both outdoor and neither have a hot tub.  But they do have jacuzzi suites.  I’m sure they will be able to give you more information.”

“Well, we’ll just be moving along then.”

“Yes, have a good evening, good luck.”

I have this conversation with people almost nightly.  It’s ridiculous.  Yes, I realize that our pool is indoor, but the pool itself isn’t heated and even in September when it was still warm outside, barely anyone was in the pool.  It’s just not cost effective.  However, if you would like to see that our pool is “really closed,” by all means, I’ll let you go see the empty concrete pit that sits there.  I’m sure if you dump your water bottle over your head, it will stimulate the effects of me attempting to drown you in your precious chemical-filled water.

It’s hard to tell which is worse, people complaining that the pool is shut down due to bad weather, or people complaining that it is shut down in the winter.  This isn’t Texas where it’s warm most of the year.  This is Nebraska and sorry to say, it gets COLD here.

Have fun when you catch pneumonia, you prick.


A Little Story About a Hotel Called SHUT UP

As an employee of a hotel, I get a lot of people who want to talk to me.  Some people just want to tell me about their day, others want to tell me their life story.

And then there are those who want to use me as a therapist.

It’s nights like that when I wish the phone would ring off the hook or someone would come in to try to rob the place.  I mean, I don’t really want us to get robbed, but I would like to be saved from the chatters.

Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I don’t like to hear about people’s lives or the awesome things that they have gotten to do or see, I actually like that a lot.  For a moment, I can vicariously live through this person’s past or present experiences and it’s rather cool and exciting.  Sometimes other people have way cooler lives than I can ever dream of having.

Like for instance, several weeks ago, a guest came to stay in the hotel that legitimately wrote music for Nat King Cole back in the day.  His stories were amazing to listen to and I even managed to get his autograph for my mom who is a big fan of Nat King Cole’s music.

An example of something I don’t want to hear is when you are experiencing relationship issues that are no one’s fault but your own.  I don’t care, I don’t want to listen, and I most definitely don’t want to listen to it multiple times a week.  There’s a big difference between a one time thing and something drawn out.

Iv’e had guests want to sit in the lobby while they drank their beers and then proceeded to cry into the bottom of the can or bottle.  Before things got out of hand a few months back, it really wasn’t a big deal if a guest wanted to have a beer in the lobby, because it was normally later at night when no one was walking in very often.  Especially because they would normally finish a beer and leave.

Now it’s a big deal and because of issues I’ve had in the past, they have to keep that crap in their room.  I don’t want to deal with it.

I will make polite conversation because it’s my job, or I will let you continue your story because I am too polite and nice for my own good sometimes and have even let people talk my ear off for two hours because I couldn’t find a polite way of saying, “Please shut up, I really, honestly do not care, and I’m trying to watch Netflix in between guests. Oh, and I suppose I could dust something. But just, please, go away.”

Oh, it gets bad, and it seems the slower the hotel is, the more people want to talk to me.

I get it a lot on the phone, too.  Someone will call to ask about availability and rates and five minutes later, I am finally giving them the cost.  Because, oh my, they just had to tell me why they are calling me, where they are from, where they are going, and WHY before they can actually get around to letting me do my job, which is to try to rent out a room to them.

I don’t want to know how many grandchildren you have, I don’t want to hear about how you are being stepped all over by your partner, and I most certainly don’t want you to hang around in here and try to hit on me when you see a ring on my finger.

Go home, go to your room, go to sleep.  Hotel Shut Up is closed.


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Wrong Number

Everyone dials a wrong number here and there, it’s just how life goes.  Most people are humble enough to realize their mistake right away, but others will try to argue with your or become suspicious of your answers.

That was the case here tonight (as I sit at work and type this quick entry out for all to enjoy).

Woman:”hi, is your hotel right next to the airport?” 
Me: “Uhm… ma’am…”
Woman: “Yeah, the Philadelphia Airport…”
Me: “I think you called the wrong number because this is a hotel in Nebraska.”
Woman: “Nebraska? This is the hotel though, isn’t it?”
Me: “Yes, but for one in Nebraska.”
Woman: “So is this a main headquarters number?”
Me: “Nope, you probably just transposed a number.”
Woman: “Oh. Uh. Bye.”

It was hard to tell if she was embarrassed or still not satisfied with my responses to her.  Either way, the fact that she kept trying to get information out of me that I didn’t have was hilarious and made this incredibly slow night just a tad bit better.